tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-153095632024-03-14T02:07:01.951-04:00The ramblings from the mind of LizAn intelligent woman shares insights, opinions and other useless knowledge with those that care to read. Caution I am open minded and I know how to use it.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-19768305299537474002017-06-18T16:08:00.000-04:002017-06-19T08:44:01.775-04:00Through my Father's eyes.<div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="f9efi" data-offset-key="352d4-0-0" style="background-color: white;">
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;">My Dad, Earl Jenkins was a good man. He passed away over 17 years ago. We weren't close but with age, I have understood our relationship better. He chose his moments and his gestured counted. The 1 day I absolutely needed him to show up for me, he did.
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;">Never when I ran out of my house for the 2nd time at 17, did I think my Dad would take off on foot after me.That gesture defined my relationship with me the very best. Push come to shove, he would do whatever he could for me.
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;">He wanted the best for me and challenged my wit and intellect. He was an amazing debate partner and taught me to hold my own and fight for my perspective.
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;">My daughter Kayla, was the 1 of his grandchildren he met and she was 1 when he passed.
I wish I had more time with him, I wish I had gotten to be an adult in his eyes and gotten to learn everything he had to offer.
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;">I wish I was able to see when he was alive that it is not always our choices that dictate our actions, families are complicated.
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;">Above all, I hope he is proud of me and the woman I have become. I often hear this song in my head and think about what my Dad would say to me if he was here to answer my questions and hear my stories
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I hope if he looks down on me it is swollen with pride and that he takes some joy in the fact that he is part of my story. I can say without a doubt, I am proud to be his daughter and am grateful for all he was able to share with me.
Thank you, David Earl Jenkins for allowing the broken little girl I was when you adopted me into your life</span></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-31305059172690581942017-06-16T23:40:00.000-04:002017-06-17T12:55:30.901-04:00My voice<div dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-33348095279061731602017-03-14T01:03:00.000-04:002017-03-14T01:04:52.415-04:00Costa Rican journey<script charset="utf-8" data-zindex="1000000" id="asp-embed-script" src="https://spark.adobe.com/page-embed.js" type="text/javascript"></script><a class="asp-embed-link" href="https://spark.adobe.com/page/uYJXMsPfhAUkd/" target="_blank"><img alt="Journey into the Forest" border="0" src="https://spark.adobe.com/page/uYJXMsPfhAUkd/embed.jpg?buster=1489467753251" style="width: 100%;" /></a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-76452256966271742182016-03-07T19:14:00.000-05:002016-03-07T19:14:45.702-05:00Daring Greatly: Personal Manifesto<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">Just finished up Daring Greatly class with Brene Brown, I would recommend to anyone. Last exercise was to make a personal manifesto to remind myself of who I am and how I want to make a difference.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span> <span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">I have always held what you write down as a commitment, so this was harder to do for me than I anticipated.So easy to fall into "wants to" or "will try" to write so many active statements really does take a mental adjustment. To me they are still wants or goals, the activity of writing them in the present as if I am there already does truly have an impact.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span> <span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">Sharing is part of the goals I have for myself, I have experienced many things, good and bad. Had to takes leaps of faith and did some reckless base jumping, so I have learned some lessons. Way more than even I have realized, as they still happen every day :)</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span> <span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">I am putting this put into the universe to make clear what I want and desire from myself. It also allows me to share a window into my soul and an invitation to engage when you need an ear, to ask my about something you know I have been through/done and to BEG for you to call me on my shit when I am being untrue.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span> <span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">Without further ado, my personal manifesto:</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;">I am a woman with a big heart and a passion for people. </span><br style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;" /><span style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;">The values that guide me in my effort to show up and be seen are generosity and courage. </span><br style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;" /><span style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;">I own my story and use it as a point of connection for those I want to serve. </span><br style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;" /><span style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;">I love myself by accepting my own imperfections as the stepping stones on my journey that they are. </span><br style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;" /><span style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;">I know that I am enough and I am loved. </span><br style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;" /><span style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;">I dare greatly by opening my heart and dropping the walls that make things safe. </span><br style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;" /><span style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;">I am on this planet to grow through challenging myself and truly connecting with others. </span><br style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;" /><span style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;">In my heart of hearts, I know there is nothing I can't do. </span><br style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;" /><span style="background-color: #f9f8f6; color: #4a5359; font-family: Nexa, verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; white-space: normal;">I stand for not only daring to dream, but having the balls to take action.</span></span><br />
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Time to stand up and be proud gamers. I don't ever say I am a GREAT gamer; I have my moments. I LOVE games, though. I read about them. I dress in them. I go to game conventions to see others who love them. I co-taught a class about them. I take classes about them. I am learning to make them.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-84825546343414035302015-10-22T17:38:00.001-04:002015-10-22T17:38:08.185-04:00636 DaysThe total number of days between Friday, January 24th, 2014 and Thursday, October 22nd, 2015 is <b>636 days</b>. So you say? What is the significance of the date 1/24/14? That was the date of my last published blog post and today. That is the number of days I silenced my voice.<br />
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My blog is the place where I can dump my thoughts and if someone cares they are there to find. It exists to provide perspective about me. I am a very public person, human yet unfaltered by the fear of examination. I share my life pretty openly on the internet. My voice through my blog is one of the purest forms of me there is, unfiltered Liz Cooper.<br />
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So what you say brought me out of the moth balls before the 650 days mark? I have been going through a transition, a period of introspection and evaluation. Time to take stock again, see what’s changed, what do I want to Keep doing, Stop doing or Start doing. Part of this process has made see I stopped blogging and what did the blogging represent for me and is that something I hold valuable and, therefore, need corrective action.<br />
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So here I am trying to figure out what value this exercise holds for me.<br />
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I am a naturally empathetic person; that tends to present in me as I care more about the feelings and comfort of others than myself in most instances. I experience a great deal of satisfaction from the process of improving the life/work state of others. Taking present day bottlenecks and stumbling block and blending them seamless into activities you don’t even register doing, is perfection.<br />
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The downside of this equation, I tend to sacrifice my own needs. This is a strange catch 22 situation, where I sacrifice my own needs, to achieve personal satisfaction. But if I frame it in the idea of addiction, you can begin to see the unhealthiness this situation can present.<br />
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What the hell does all that have to do with my blog?<br />
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My blog is one space where whatever I want to say comes first and however I feel comes first. My blog is the one place in my life it can truly feel ok to be selfish.<br />
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I guess that’s why it is so easy for me to stop, I see it as selfish, and that naturally falls against my nature.<br />
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Even now I am starting to find reasons why I should be moving on, that I am greedy with my time.<br />
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I am a passionate person. Without an outlet to contain my passion, I will be at risk for overload, with a short fuse.<br />
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Blogging helps me feel like I have been heard for some reason, even if nobody even reads it. I have expressed and examined the ideas and feelings. I have created a resolution.<br />
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To be a better version of myself, I need to be able to reign in my passion to a level that is digestible and fascinating to others. Blogging helps me modulate my passion. Therefore, Blogging helps me be a better version of myself. I will start blogging regularly.<br />
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I commit for two blog posts a month minimum for the remainder of 2015 and through 2016, that is 18 blog posts by 12/31/2016. I challenged anyone reading to hold me accountable, <a href="mailto:lcooper@gamersforgood.com">lcooper@gamersforgood.com</a>. Email me if I’m slacking, and you noticed.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-912707512963571612014-01-24T01:31:00.001-05:002014-01-24T01:31:19.368-05:0020 adjectives that describe who I REALLY am.Self discovery exercise: write 20 adjectives that I feel really describe me:<div>1. Resourceful</div><div>2. Determined</div><div>3. Sensitive</div><div>4. Creative</div><div>5. Eager</div><div>6. <span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">Insecure</span></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">7. Stubborn</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">8. Caring</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">9. Helpful</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">10. Enthusiastic</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">11. Persuasive </font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">12. Brave</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">13. Analytical</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">14. Organized</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">15. Loyal</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">16. Imaginative</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">17. Hopeful</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">18. Unique</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">19. Passionate</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">20. Curious </font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><br></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">Strange to do, but really telling to try and look at something from many different angles before even attempting to pull the information together into something that makes sense and has purpose.</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><br></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">To thine own self be true.</font></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-65471338651928399912014-01-14T01:42:00.000-05:002014-01-14T01:42:01.511-05:00Survey of Character StrengthsAs part of the women's club I am a part of this year each month there is a reading , and then activities followed by a group meeting all with same theme. We have started 1st module, self discovery. Last week we got reading, this week is activities.<br />
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As part of the rediscovering myself theme, I was asked to take a character survey. The survey reveal which 5 character strengths are top of my list. My top 5.<br />
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Will be back to write more on these. </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-28475955436552755602014-01-09T19:44:00.000-05:002014-01-29T18:29:59.441-05:00And I am?OK, so in this effort to get to know the real me I am starting a list. This list will contain things I have not ever been really open about. I have made small efforts at things, but never really give in public before.<br />
<br />
Some of these are really embarrassing to me, but who the heck cares. Tease me, I am grown enough to not really care. <br />
<br />
I am ready to come out and see what is the sum of those things. What can I do to make my life one I love living. I am so grateful for the life I have. I just want to find a way to be a happy, healthy contributing part of my community. Any advice or ideas to share with me, use comments. A lot of you have experience sections of my life. anyone who has been around awhile knows a lot about me.<br />
<br />
<ol>
<li>I give more value to the opinions of others than one should allow. I rate your opinions higher my own.</li>
<li>I LOVE to research! </li>
<li>I am a Twihard.</li>
<li>I LOVE music.</li>
<li>I love checklists.</li>
<li>I enjoy art of public speaking in both performing and viewing roles.</li>
<li>I LOVE video games. I love their merchandise, their fans, their events. </li>
<li>I love to travel</li>
<li>I like conventions and trade shows, lots if them. Cars, Comics, Steampunk, health, parenting, women's, music, pop culture. Luv them all.</li>
<li>I like costuming</li>
<li>I made up my own words for cursing when my kids were little. God Bless America, frabber nabbers, fudge biscuits. </li>
<li>I have a hard time listening to music without singing along.</li>
<li>I LOVE to write.</li>
<li>I BELIEVE in service to others. </li>
<li>I enjoy entertainment/celebrity gossip. </li>
<li>I am very detail oriented, I see more than others</li>
<li>I am very empathetic, I am very effected by others feelings.</li>
<li>I am very competitive</li>
<li>I HATE traffic. Stop and Go kills me.</li>
<li>I LOVE to drive.</li>
<li>I like to support the underdog.</li>
<li>I am UBER connected. Unplugged sounds so strange to me.</li>
<li>I made a <a href="http://www.hirelizriot.com/" target="_blank">website about myself</a>, to try and get hired at Riot Games. </li>
<li>I have started the long term topic blog process once each year for a few years.</li>
<li>I have a very ADDICTIVE prone personality. I can get very addicted very EASILY. </li>
<li>I am overthinker</li>
<li>I LOVE working with small children.</li>
<li>I enjoy working with Teens in need.</li>
<li>I HATE hospitals. </li>
<li>I am intrinsically curious. </li>
<li>I am extremely brave.</li>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-18107039147314849472014-01-02T02:39:00.002-05:002014-01-02T02:39:59.215-05:00New YearsI feel too young to say that I have had a ritual for New Year's Eve that has remained unbroken for 20 years. Peet and I both have. It make look slightly different some years, but the end result has always been the same. Peet and I always spend the strike of midnight together. Whether we are shoulder to shoulder prepping for the midnight kiss or separated by oceans and thousands of miles, we have ALWAYS been together in some capacity when the clock strikes 12.<br />
<br />
It might not sounds significant until you realize what this has actually looked like for us at times. There have been more than a few years where it took heroic efforts to be sure this remained true.<br />
<br />
During both Peet's deployments overseas, he has managed to wrangle himself into being in in the right place in line for the phone to be sure he is talking with me as midnight struck in my timezone,which for each deployment was different :) The last one when 2005 changed to 2006,that night it required some bartering and squad assisance to keep our tradition.<br />
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One year, it was me who was away from Peet at home. Running a New Year's Eve event across the state. I was frantically running to get far enough from the music and noise of the crowd so I could share that moment with him.<br />
<br />
No argument, no communications difficulty, literally nothing has prevented Peet and I since our first New Year's Eve in high school from ensuring that the New Years tradition of being together as midnight strikes brings luck to your relationship in the next year.<br />
<br />
One year, the phone conversation we had at midnight was the first we had talked in almost a week, and it brought us back together.<br />
<br />
So what you say, who cares?<br />
<br />
The fact that no matter what our circumstances have been, we have been willing to make this happen each year,is a great reminder to us both. It reminds us that anything we want, that we truly desires we can achieve if we work for it. That the things we desires are worth making the effort for. We also get to see that sometimes things are easy and sometimes they are difficult, but they are still achievable.<br />
<br />
Getting to start the New Year with not only the love of my life but also the strength and renewal this tradition holds is priceless. So to each of you and yours, I send New Year's wishes that you will realize what you want is only out of reach, if you aren't willing to work to get to it. Let 2014 be the year we all allow our dreams and efforts to achieve them result in the best year of our lives :)<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-54094293580200482192013-09-06T17:57:00.001-04:002014-01-02T02:18:59.567-05:00Never say Never!I met another individual yesterday who I was so comfortable around and I feel like truly understood me and could see me transparently both strengths and weaknesses and I was not at all intimidated in his presence. <br />
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Strange thing is he was able to articulate things about me, I would not have been able to say clearer if at all.<br />
<br />
I know I sound like a total "fanboy" but Riot truly does have some of the most amazing people I have had to get to meet working together towards a wonderful player focused based goal.<br />
<br />
I hope that I get a chance one day to work with people as amazing as those that Riot has gathered.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-67664202076654975272013-05-15T17:57:00.000-04:002013-09-06T17:54:52.732-04:00Huge fistbump goes out to Riot Games!Something amazing is happening here in Santa Monica and, holy cow, we are apart of it.<br />
Being on the older side of the general population of game developers
and families here at Riot Games means we know what
game development looks like, honeymoon period is long gone this isn't our first rodeo,things are a little bit different here and we are
ALL in!<br />
<br />
Like actually, we're in!<br />
<br />
Riot Games and it's People program are an amazing collection of treasures I as a game developer's spouse have ever seen. Not since my days as an ARMY spouse have I seen a support system that is actively been grown and strengthened. Not only is Riot creating a very special experience for our significant others in the company culture, but they have an experience for us as families too. Kids activities, Holiday celebrations, incentive opportunities, and excursions we are apart of the picture, and not like they LET us come, like they are encourage us to dig it and participate in the planning and running of family activities. They have created a portal for us to meet online and encouraged turning that online social kindling into real world friendships with local activities and meetups.<br />
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I have been apart of some very different organizations as part of my marriage to Peet Cooper, Lead Artist at Riot Games. From the small studio environment to large corporate ones each has it's pluses and minuses, you decide what matters most to you, right? Riot Games is doing it's own thing in every way and the results of those efforts is that Riot Games as an organization is AWESOME! They don't make you choose your career over your family, they are creating a different ways to make sure item <a href="http://www.riotgames.com/about#5" target="_blank">#5 on the Riot Manifesto</a> stays true. <br />
<br />
Riot Games is still young as a company, so things are still fluid nothing so set in stone that when needed things can be adjusted. The pace is fast and very exciting and the product makes it easy to be proud of being apart of the Riot Games community.<br />
<br />
The front page of the company website sums it up best:<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"> </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">Many
years and countless failures were all spent in my training to prepare a
traditional Thanksgiving feast. The steps included in the traditional
Thanksgiving included; Roasting a turkey(It should be aromatic, tender, juicy
and have a crisp perfectly browned skin), hand making stuffing ( A four day
process that started with cutting bread into cubes, and ends with a perfect
balance of moist and dry, chewy and crunchy, and savory and sweet.) and pumpkin
pies from scratch( A fresh pumpkin to begin, resulting in a butter flakey crust
filled perfectly with handmade pumpkin pie filling. Baked until slightly firm
and the crust sticks perfect to the edges and just browns at the very edge.) They
were all just part of the lessons I went through in my family holiday meal
preparation training. Little did I know the first Thanksgiving meal I would
spend with my soon to be new family I was entirely unprepared for?</span>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">“Are
you ready to go yet?” Patrick, my future brother in law asks. I frantically am
running around grabbing things and shoving them into my purse. I am just
slightly frazzled, trying to figure out how to prepare a holiday meal with only
a single burner and a mini fridge. Can it be done? I ask in my head.” Almost
ready.” I yell back to him. My eyes scan the room, trying to remember if there
is anything else I need to grab before we go. We currently live in a one room
motel room, by we I mean; Peet my boyfriend, Patrick his brother, Jackie, their
Mom and Chris their Dad. Scanning the room you can see how very crowded we are.
The room is about 20ftx12ft, there are 3 queen beds, 3 TV’s, one closet, 1
dresser and a mini fridge. Then there is the bathroom, which also doubles as a
kitchen somewhat, it has the single burner and pan as well as the microwave.
Crowded I guess was stating it mildly.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">The
room in my parent’s house, I left to come stay with them was half this sized
and meant for only me. I had a room full of fine furniture and was not the
slightest bit crowded, well at least not physically. We all make choices in
life and I made mine, but it has left me in a world outside the one I know. I
have gone from a world of opulence and abundance to one of necessary means.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">I
am fairly sure at this point I have what I need so I head out the door; being
very sure I have locked it properly. Locking the door can be the difference
between keeping the stuff you own and giving it away to whomever happens to try
your door knob. There is absolutely no sense of community in a rundown motel
where people live instead of stay a few nights.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">Patrick
and I head out to gather what we can for three of us to have a Thanksgiving
dinner. Jackie has to work and Chris in uninterested in being part of a family
meal. So it is just us three, to be honest Peet and Patrick are only going
along with this to try and be nice to me, they could careless as well about
Thanksgiving. I guess it can be hard in times of discontent to find things to
be thankful for, but for me it is tradition. I think it is one they will
appreciate; every situation has something to be thankful for.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">Peet
is working and we want to get things together while he is at work. I put
together a list of modified items that I think I can pull off with the
microwave and burner, but am still trying to figure out how to manage turkey
properly.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">“Wow,
there are a lot of people here.” says Patrick. I say, “Welcome to grocery
shopping on Thanksgiving.” Grocery shopping on Thanksgiving is never fun,
especially when you are trying to buy the same things everyone else is trying
to buy. “Ok, so we have a handful of items to buy and only so much $$$, let’s
do this”, I mumble to myself. I have never had to combine so many restrictions
into one meal, we have what I want to make, then there is what I can actually
make given the available facilities and then there is what I can afford to buy
and can possibly make. My head is spinning, running combinations through, my
head, ranking importance of yams, to corn in comparison to macaroni and then
stuffing. Patrick asks,” Are you sure this is really worth all the drama to
you? We can just go to Taco Bell.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">“I
appreciate your thoughtfulness, but I am sure. Can you grab the last gravy can
over there?” I say. As if moving a herd of cows through mud, we make our way
across the grocery store, slowly. After running all the combinations through my
head and grabbing items through angry crowds, I think I am done. We head to the
registers to pay. We are bombarded at the register by donation opportunities,
donate to this and donate to that. We finally are walking through the sliding
glass doors out of the store.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">“I
don’t think I will ever understand the fuss over Holiday meals.” Says Patrick,”
It is just one meal.” I feel bad knowing I will be struggling to pull off this
meal at all, and it will be nowhere close to what I am capable of producing
given facilities and budget I could do much better, but I don’t want to point
that out so I simply say,” Taking time out of the rush of life, to spend time
preparing food together and then sitting around eating it together, give people
a chance to enjoy one another’s company and appreciate each other’s help. I
appreciate you coming with me shopping, we got to hang out and do something
different.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">We
get back to the motel after walking the 2 miles back from the store. We both
start taking items out and trying to arrange what needs to be refrigerated in
the mini fridge. We get all the ingredients sorted out, but something in my
head is standing out as missing. I am unable to figure out what though.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">Peet
gets back from work and walks in the door, “Is the food ready?” </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">“I
don’t know are you done cooking it?” I say back to him.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">“Ha,
Ha, Ha” he says. He starts looking through all the treasures we gathered at the
store earlier. He looks up at me and says,” I don’t see any Turkey.”</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 200%; text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">“That’s
what missing, I thought something was missing when we were putting stuff away,
but couldn’t figure out what.” I state.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">Peet
jumps up, “Let me change and we will go get some.” I begin to panic a little
though while he is getting dressed. It is now 2:00pm on Thanksgiving; most of
the stores are probably closed. Patrick says he doesn’t want to go back out one
trip was enough for him, but Peet talks him into joining our adventure.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">We
head out once again, but this time on a mission, to find turkey for
Thanksgiving dinner. We head back to the area Patrick and I were in earlier but
the two major grocery stores there are already closed. So we decide to try a
few of the smaller markets we know around town and see if we have any luck.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">3
little markets later things are not looking so good; we are not sure where to
check next. We begin to start to head back home on the brink of giving up and
we see a small deli, so we decide to check it out. We are luck they have
turkey, well turkey lunchmeat style, it will have to do. Rejoicing in our find,
Peet is skipping down the street overjoyed. I am not so sure about how a block
of unsliced lunchmeat will go with Thanksgiving, but Peet is a great example of
how to take pleasure in the small things. Our mission was accomplished, so we
head home.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 200%;">The
meal prepared and partaken of that day was by no means the best I have ever
had, but the day it’s self the memories and the lessons learned, make that
Thanksgiving one of the more important ones I have had so far. Thanksgiving
used to mean elaborate meals and decorations, that day taught me I was only
opening myself up to part of the reason for the day. Experiencing Thanksgiving
in the life of another social class is a wonderful opportunity to see what
really matters about how you celebrate and what is just fluff. I still prepare
a big elaborate meal every year, but now we invite over all the new folks or
those without a place to go and we meet new people as well as bond with those
we already love. That day started a new tradition changing the focus of the
holiday from the meal to the people.</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 200%;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>“Mrs.
Cooper, is that right? I am sorry but you are going to have to stay, there
seems to be a problem.” My eyes and head swing in an upward motion in a smooth
single glide. The target of my eyes is a doctor I do not recognize but he seems
to have read my file, at least it appears so by the way he is talking to me.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">After
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a gown and we are going to get you admitted.” She says as she hurries from the
room. I thought something didn’t feel right, that is after all why I came into
the ER in the first place, but I had no idea.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">I
get into the gown and crawl up into the bed they rolled up in front of the hall
door. I hate hospitals. The sheet on the bed are white like they have been
bleached over and over, so many times they are wearing thin. They are also cold
and rough, I hesitate to slide my leg under the sheet. The lights in the hall
blaze, florescent must be the most unnatural lighting ever. You never confuse
the haze of fluorescent lights for the natural glow from outside. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">A
nurse comes by and rolls me up to labor and delivery, 3<sup>rd</sup> floor
coming up! The nurse parks me in the room and then tells me the doctor will be
in to speak with me shortly, which I know means probably hours from now. Guess
I will check out what is on the TV.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">Funny
how the angle hospital TV’s are at, forces you almost to recline, if you don’t
either lie down or bring the back of the bed up, it just isn’t comfortable to
watch. Almost as if they are telling you in their own little way, get
comfortable you are going to be here awhile.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">I
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more information. I don’t want to worry him and at this point in time I am not
sure which will worry him less, so I start to dial.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">He
doesn’t answer so I have to leave a voicemail, I tell him I will call when I
have more information, but all they have told me at this point is they are
admitting me. Hate leaving messages with important info, but I could get
dragged off for tests and not knowing when I could call again, I better tell
him something now.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">I
try to watch TV for a while, my focus is nowhere near the television, but it is
a decent distraction. Had I know I would be staying I would have brought my bag
with me; it has all the magazines, Gameboy and music to listen to. I wait again
what seems like hours to see someone again. They tell me they will be right
with me to hook up some monitors, if I want to get up or use the restroom
without machines this is my last chance for a while. I take the suggestion and
go to use the restroom.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">Hospital
in room bathrooms look funny to me, first off they are always entirely made of
tile so they are always cold. Then they have handles and pull strings, for god
only knows what. Then there is the drain in the middle of the floor, something
strange to me about standing in a room that is meant to be hosed down, nothing
good comes to mind in thinking why they need that there, so I try to stop
thinking about it entirely.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>How long ago did I call my husband, what is
taking him so long I thought at the least he would call by now? I am now almost
in a state of panic, I know I contain it well you could hardly tell, but I am
one straw away from my back breaking.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">I
am currently 21, 2 weeks married, adopted with no family medical history and
past 40 weeks pregnant, and I have no idea why they have kept me or what is
going on? Could I get more anxious than this? I have been here for some time
and nobody is telling me anything.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">The
next couple hours fly by, but the events relax me. My husband decides to just
come over instead of calling so he is here, great to have personal company, he
knows me. The monitors have been hooked up and my baby is doing fine. They are
talking about inducing my labor that is time for my daughter to enter the
world, my nurse tells me I am in the final hours without children that it will
be soon.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">The
next time I see the doctor in my room he briefly goes over the plan of action,
we start some meds in my IV and some on my cervix directly to get labor
started, then we wait. There is no exact what of knowing how long it will take
to get up to full steam baby pushing time.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">In
about 40 min I start to feel really crampy, the doctor checks and labor has
begun, slowly but it has started. My pulse starts to race at this news, am I
ready? Have I done everything I could to prepare? I am so nervous to be a new
mom.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">A
couple hours later, nothing much has changed, so my nurse suggests we go for a
walk around the hospital, see if the exercise helps things along at all. So we
decide to cruise the halls for about an hour. We check out a full 3 floors
worth of Hospital wall art. Funny when you are just in and out of the hospital
for appointments you don’t really notice how much art there really is on the
wall. I am amazed at how many artists are featured and the quality of the art
at the Hospital. I am happy it is here though, I am searching for good
distractions, and the pain is getting worse and more frequent.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">We
walk, now at a slower pace, back to my room. About 15 min go by and the Doc is
in to check me, I have moved forward. Good news. He tells me that he is going
to order an epidural to be readied for me, so when I am ready they can
administer it if I choose, sometimes the window of able to give and unable to
give is very small, so he wants to be prepared.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">It
has been now 4 hours since I saw my Doctor and things don’t seem to be
changing. The nurse comes in a tells me she doesn’t see things changing too
much that I may want to try to get some sleep while I still might be able to. I
try and try to find a comfortable position and just can’t. The nurse sees my
rolling around and asks me where it hurts the worst, and I show her my lower
back. She comments I may be having back labor and makes notes in my file.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">My
eyes slowly peel open to an early morning haze; I guess I did finally fall
asleep for a bit. I am not awake for even 5 min before a nurse is in the room checking
vitals and taking more blood. My doctor comes in and greets me, he informs me
that he is now leaving and his collogue will be taking over and he introduces
her to me. She takes a check of me and talks about how I have been in labor for
a while now and they would like to try to speed it along. I say whatever they
think is best. She tells me she will get things ordered then and we will get
things moved along.</span></div>
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She warns me that this may go very fast to hold on and go with it; my daughter
is at the end of the ride. I get nervous and a little scared, but excited that
it might all be over soon as well.</span></div>
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should have to feel how much it hurt. I am grasping at the cold hard steel
rails on my bed and tearing at the crappy hospital sheets which have tangled my
feet. Needless to say I am in now finally in full blown labor.</span></div>
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on my cervix dilation and then we are good to go to push. I am anxious, nervous
and excited, all the while in huge amounts of pain, horrible to manage, a pure
mess. My nurse tells me she is going to call the Anesthesiologist for my
epidural that it is time.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">The
concept of receiving an epidural in labor sounds much more ideal than it is.
You take a woman in pain that has been told to breathe in funny patterns, and
then you tell her to roll into ball, hold perfectly still and hold her breath,
perfect execution right? Well after we got through that, the relief from pain
is almost immediate but I find it very strange that even though the pain is
gone I can still feel all the pressure of the contractions. I guess I have been
so focused on the pain I did not notice how much the contraction are actually
pushing on me.</span></div>
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couple calm hours go by chatting with my hubby, playing trivia games and such.
My doctor comes back to check on me. I can tell by her face she is beginning to
get concerned that I have not finished my dilation of my cervix yet. She tries
to manipulate it slightly, but unsuccessfully. She then informs me that she is
willing to try and let me wait another few hours but if nothing happens we are
going to have to go the c-section route, which I really don’t want to do.</span></div>
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90 minutes pass, and we have made a full circle we are at the 24 hour mark for
labor, at the same time my first doctor is back on shift a replaces his
collogue. He though does not share her thoughts on c-section; he says we can do
this natural.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">He
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to scramble a bit. My husband gets escorted off to where he scrubs for
delivery. And I am on the roll again, through the hospital halls.</span></div>
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next period of time moves very quickly for me. One thing after another is
happening and people are coming in and out of the delivery room for a while. It
seems everyone is situated and the doctor arrives, he says we are going to try our
first pushes, being this is my first child I need some coaching, not exactly
sure what it is I push on. After a little explanation and practice, I give a
few good pushes. The doctor says he is going to scrub and be back and we are
going to have a baby.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 200%; text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">I
guess I feel slightly relaxed knowing that everything seems to look fine and we
are in the home stretch, at least it seems.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">The
doctor comes back and we start pushing, we keep going for almost 20 min. This
is a lot of work to do over and over again for 20 min. We decide to take a
break then we will try again. We go through this cycle 3 times. I am
frustrated, crying and at a loss for words completely. What is going on, what
do we do now?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">After
about another 30 min since the last time I tried pushing with the doctor, he
returns. He tells me he wants to try a vacuum to help pull the baby out. It
seems my daughter has turned herself around and her head is facing the wrong
way and it just doesn’t fit so nicely as facing the other way does. So he wants
to help her along.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 200%; text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">Terrified
of the notion that they are about the attach a vacuum to my new daughter head
and try to pull her out of me, I try to cooperate as best<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I can. Loads of pressure, and they tell me to
push, so I do. No luck. We repeat this a few times and they all disappear
again.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 200%; text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">What
can go worse is she really stuck? Why are we doing a c-section like the other
doctor said? My thoughts are racing, but my body is exhausted from this
marathon, where the ends appears nowhere in sight.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 200%; text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">Almost
fearful of his return, the doctor reemerges, with what appear to be huge salad
tongs, he tells me they are called forceps and will help scoop my daughter out.
These things are huge I tell you, I can’t imagine there is room for those too
as well as the baby, but they seem determined to try. And try they are doing,
but it seems fruitless yet again.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 200%; text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">The
doctor leaves once again, but he returns quickly this time. He says I need one
person for each of my legs; they need to hold them because I am so tired. The
doctor walks over to me and asks me, “Do you want to have this baby now?” I
tell him of course. He tells my mom and husband to hold my legs way high and
then in an instant he doctor reaches down grabs the back of my ponytails pulls
my hair hard and yells at me,” Get mad and push that baby out!”</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 200%; text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 200%;">Terrified,
I am pushing for my life, eyes darting from face to face, wondering if this is
normal. He pulls harder and I push harder. I am actually afraid so I push for
fear. 8 min later my daughter is born, it is finally over.</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-48373448616261148542013-02-08T15:12:00.000-05:002013-02-08T15:12:26.138-05:00My juicefast Jan-to-Feb 013Wow, I feel so different than the way I started. I have allowed myself to grow in whatever way I felt drawn, whatever felt needed. I have sought physical, mental and emotional fitness. I started see what was the root issue to things. I am not a sum of my circumstances, I am who I choose to be, so if I want to change what I see, I will have to choose to.<br />
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I have moved past so very old emotional scars, and I have allowed people old and new into my life. I have seen who I really am and was it possible and I WANT that! I am going ot do some recaps of what I captured on Facebook and add the stuff I didn't post. The other side of the Facebook page.<br />
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I am also going to be more active in my challenges. I am going to try to do things every day for 3 weeks. They say it takes 21 days to form a pattern, Let's see.<br />
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In between challenges, I will take one week off then start the next one. I have never been afraid to try something and I am much faster off the line than crossing it. So I have until the night of Valentine's Day to figure out my next challenge. I am hoping that by continuing the blog and adding my reflection on the last challenge, it will help guide me to the next one in need a the time.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-78006217280358291612012-12-07T21:18:00.000-05:002012-12-07T21:30:23.432-05:00Music and writing a book?Those who know me well know I have a very very long memory. I don't forget a lot of things. One thing that is strange to me that I totally love is I can sit down listen to random shuffle from my music library and it is like a time machine. I see people, locations, I remember the feelings sometimes even smells.<br />
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Most of the people in my life has some sort of theme song to me, a song I hear that I can't help but think of them. Certain songs bring memories up so fast, it can be shocking. I love having a long memory, I get to keep so many wonderful things so close to the surface of my mind whenever I want to.<br />
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Then I started thinking, I know I take that for granted, how incredibly long my memory is, and let's face it I am not getting any younger, right? I won't always be able to pull something from 25-30 years ago in a seconds time.<br />
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I have also been incredibly lucky in life, At least I think so. I have been on some grand adventures, and come through relatively unscathed. I have tried things and gone through things and been through some stuff. Like I am sure most of you don't know another person who has had an average of 1.17 jobs and moves an average of every 8.5 months for every year they have been alive.<br />
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I love my memories and a lot of them are actually really good stories to share... so that got me thinking. i should finally start writing that book I have been told I should write a million times. I guess I never saw a really good reason, but age has created one for me.<br />
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I started my outline yesterday and was working on some title ideas. I am planning on writing it in a collection of short stories kind of way. Each chapter will be stories grouped together by a common theme, like cast or characters, major events, schools jobs, etc. Still working that out in my mind.<br />
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But I could use a little help, what events did you experience with me that you think are book worthy?<br />
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One pitfall of a super long memory is the filtering process, the sorting. I have a pretty good system of context. If I am trying to remember a particular time, I figure out what school I went to, where I lived, where I worked by dates and it helps create my then current cast and then events with them fall in after that, songs and pictures from that time after. I can go step further by looking up pop culture from that time, it adds more details and stories. So how do you pick and choose or combine to get all the best of everything, what do you leave out?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-28886320513390328172012-09-07T15:24:00.001-04:002012-09-07T23:02:04.358-04:00Wow it's been a long time!Allowing 6 years to pass since my last real blog writing, has created an overload of things I want to experience again and explore for myself while sharing that monologue with whomever is reading. I want to be open for whatever you value to share with me and strong enough to make necessary changes. I am not getting any younger and I have collected so much information, it is time to sort it out and make the best use of it to inspire the best version of me; to be the most present version of me.<br />
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We all have multiples side;, stress, fatigue, patience and many, many other factors effect how we treat each other and the things around us. The best version of ourselves is one we are very proud of, not in any sort of smug, boastful way, just really the best of each our our assets displayed all at once time. The "BEST" you.<br />
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Then we have the good me, which few areas of our selves are not displayed with the best level. It continues until we reach the version of ourselves that has only the worst aspect of each asset displayed all at one time.The "WORST" you.<br />
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I want to start moving areas that are closer to "WORST" back towards "BEST", so that I can be more proud of the person I am displaying.<br />
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You may wonder, where is this coming from? Why today??<br />
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I have heard things lately and in the recent past, that have all started coming together in my head that have culminated unto the moment we are now sharing.<br />
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Today I was told I was not a good role model for my daughters in various aspects. That means something to me. I want to be better than that.<br />
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This week I spoke with a wonderful friend about the difficulty in being truly honest.<br />
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Last Sunday, I heard a talk about purpose and are we serving our purpose? I can't really say I am, and I need to change that.<br />
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A few months ago, I was told I was not learning from my mistakes by a colleague. I have experienced a lot in the last 6 years, it is time to sort through it find what I did right and wrong, and use that information to move towards the "BEST" me.<br />
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I welcome you to join me on my journey, I am going to try and write often and ask for feedback and help, share if you feel motivated. Had something you always wanted to tell me, ask me, or ask of me, please do.<br />
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I am going somewhere, not quite sure where, but it is time to take the first step and follow it through to where ever it goes. Help keep me on track.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-1148769909938924072006-05-27T18:44:00.000-04:002006-05-27T18:45:09.960-04:00My heroHave you ever really known someone on a personal level that amazed you in everyway? This person has been in your life for years yet you still find yourself in awe of them. I have someone in my life that is and always will be my hero, someone the world benefits from just because they are here. In more ways than one this person has shined, and the effects have been felt far and wide.<br />Too many people in modern day society will take a troubled childhood or a broken home and use it as an excuse for whatever failures they produce or hardships they might encounter. My hero took a stormy childhood and used it as motivation to rise above circumstances. Provided little to no moral support by his family unit, more criticism than encouragement, success was improbable for my hero in most people’s eyes. The journey for my hero is nowhere close to over, but the adventure thus far keeps me waiting with baited breath to see what the future holds.<br />By the time I encountered my hero in high school, he had endured more than most in a lifetime. Yet even so early off in life, the effects he had on the world around him were apparent. Each and every person close to him in his life was benefited in some way from the relationship. His influence ranged from encouragement, comedic relief, athletic challenge, confidant, all the way to scapegoat. Not all these relationships benefited him, but he was strong enough to carry the burden for those that needed him in there lives.<br />As if the hand life dealt him was not quite challenging enough, enter me to add to the stakes of the game. I was a melodramatic, strong spoken, rebellious teenager with a chip the size of Mt. Rushmore on my shoulder. I was dangerously independent to the point of almost closing everyone out of my life. My home life was far from the everyday troubles and trials that he had been raised in, but more along the dramatic suburban line. I was a free thinking, open minded youth in a conservative toe the line world. I was fighting my way out of a world I simply did not fit into.<br />Barely knowing much of my situation or about me for that matter, my hero became the most important person in my life. When I was ready to shut the door on the world of others completely, he showed me a glimmer of hope for humankind. He was a balance that I had never before experienced. Strong when I was weak, Relaxed when I was stressed, Optimistic when I was depressed, Funny when I was sad. To simply state it, he was exactly what I needed exactly when I needed it.<br />My hero allowed me to develop into whatever I was to become. He did not try to influence me in one way or another, but simply allowed me to take the path I needed to. He helped me up when I stumbled, and cheered the loudest at my accomplishments, but never pushed.<br />Even if his influence stopped there, he would be a hero in my world. But in my opinion he is a Hero for the world, so I go on.<br />My Hero feels he has a curse. It’s a curse that many would take off his hands at any point in time. Artistic Talent. He calls it his curse because, it is not always what he feels like doing with his life, but he feels the obligation to take advantage of what he has been given and worked so hard to develop. It is also one of those doubled edged swords, because it gives him the greatest sense of both accomplishment and failure.<br />My hero has a very gifted artistic talent and he has used it to benefit so very many people in so many very different ways. He has produced art work for many people in many different areas of the world, from local groups going on vacation to Little League in our hometown, he has produced artwork for every employer he has every had from the restaurant we all worked at right after high school to his infantry units with the US Army. He has worked with BIC mechanical pencils on copy paper to working on a digital tablet on high end PC workstations.<br />The element of his art that most impresses me, and is one of his most heroic traits, is his willingness to share it with the world. I am not referring to him sharing the product of his artistic talent, but the sharing of his knowledge. He gives himself to all that ask and are willing to learn. He has committed uncountable hours to review and critiquing others art, creating personalized tutorials, sitting one on one. He believes not only in his own talent, but in the importance of helping other artist grow and expand there own knowledge and talents. This trait runs over into most areas of his life.<br />My hero is always willing to watch out for the other guy; he never forgets the team and places high value in the spirit of the underdog. For as amazingly talented he is at most things he does, he couldn’t be a better team player. He is a natural born leader.<br />His leadership skills have never taken a more world wide impact than the time he has spent with the US Army. He is currently serving overseas with the Army on his second tour in Kuwait. He has often and is again placed in command of many younger and less experienced soldiers than himself. He has an amazing strength to carry a team and the spirit to create a bond. Those both result in an amazing team confidence and a relationship among each other that is a benefit not only to them but the hostility of their environment benefits from such team coercion. In an area where lack of team communication can set off a variety of unpleasant events, the importance of teamwork and the responsibility to lead through example could not be placed in better hands.<br />As he cares for his soldiers and the world wide concerns they are responsible to uphold. He still finds the time to dedicate himself as a father. My hero shines with a urethral glow when he comes to his natural love and amazing relationships with his 3 children. One might think that because his parenting example was weak, that his skills might be lacking. Reality could be nothing farther from that statement. From the outside looking in, you might think his actions were a result of overcompensation to make sure things are very different from his own childhood. As someone who knows him and sees him on an everyday level with his children, you will know it is just a natural love and nurturing spirit that leads his actions and responses to his girls.<br />As a man’s man, he has an uncanny ability to relate and find common ground with his 3 young girls. Give him 10 years and they might not relate on the same level, but I know that they will always be able to sense the love their father has for them. He has stated that even if it requires him showing up at their high school in a Bunny costume just to embarrass them, he will always make his presence in their lives known.<br />My hero is so many things to so many people all at the same time. Part of what amazes most is his ability to juggle all of the responsibility he has. The ability to shift gears, change hats and fill another role so quickly.<br />Hero: A person noted for feats of courage or nobility of purpose, especially one who has risked or sacrificed his or her life<br />My hero fits that definition in everyway. He has shown courage, lived his life with purpose and has sacrificed his life many ways at many times. I will never stop adoring, respecting, admiring and idolizing my hero. Living life in proximity to someone who has and will do such great things only inspires greatness. I have and will always be a better person because of the example set by my hero.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-1144604857927222262006-04-09T13:38:00.000-04:002006-05-27T20:56:44.660-04:00The battle withinAs days pass I would expect the excitement to be growing, but it seems I cry more and more with each passing day. I can feel as if I am just dragging myself through one day simple to get to the next, and repeat.<br /><br />I want to be happy, I fight with myself each day to try and make it so. Physical activity seems to make things a little easier to forget, so the gym has become my friend.<br /><br />I have never felt so alone in the world, I have also never felt so selfish. I feel like at time my emotions have taken over and I forget the happening in the rest of the world, my own self pity takes on global importance in my mind, and the guilt of those thoughts only makes it worse.<br /><br />How the hell do I pull myself out of this cycle? How do I put on the happy face and survive another day? Planning events that are supposed to be happy, makes me fear them, am I so far gone that I will not be able to recover.<br /><br />Or.... will it only take that one look, that one moment for this all to seem like it never happened?<br /><br />I am normally the optimist in life, it is against my character to want to admit that I can not make things better, but lately my battle within has been making me feel weak. I want to be strong, I need to regain control, if not for me than for them.<br /><br />My happiness is more important to many others than just me, I wish it was that easy. I wish I could be depressed and it not really make a difference. At least then the guilt of being depressed would not follow. Why can't I wallow for awhile if it helps me through the day, is crying myself to sleep really going to matter to anyone else in the end?<br /><br />I barely have it in to me to keep writing this, a confession of sorts, exposure.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-1143338109428636802006-03-25T20:55:00.000-05:002006-03-25T20:59:33.436-05:00Power of the Human SpiritSpirit is one of those words that is used in multiple ways. I refer to spirit as the life force within each one of us that represents our ability to thrive and our connection to each other and the world around us.<br /><br />Some people are gentle spirits, there are the wise spirits. Those that are giving and the brave and strong spirits.<br /><br />I don't know if I truly believe in some cosmic forces contained within the flesh of our human forms, in some Sci-Fi manor, but I do believe that the series of emotional events and personal growth in reaction to those experience and your interactions in everyday life, create in each one of us something that is unique.<br /><br />You as a person contain your own set of emotions, intellect, logic, and morals that together combine to create your personality and your character. I believe that the combination of all these things is your spirit.<br /><br />On a more basic level, to put it as simply as possible, if were all blind, your spirit is what would still show. Your physical appearance gone, mannerisms gone.<br /><br />I think people on many levels have given up on the power of the human spirit, that we live in a time where we only truly appreciate it in times of crisis.<br /><br />On a normal day to day basis, we feel no need as a species to feed the spirits of the those around us, to nurture our own spirits or to acknowledge the spirit of people who might seem inconsequential in our lives.<br /><br />An unattended spirit will wither and die, but that those acknowledge their spirit, can accept that things beyond the physicality of themselves need to be maintained as well, will thrive in live. They will be able to handle the disasters that can happen everyday. They will live life to it's fullest absorbing and growing with each passing day.<br /><br />I know it sounds a little metaphysical for some of you out there, but you can not deny what I am speaking of, even if I am putting it in terms you find uncomfortable, there is something inside us, a bond between us as humans, something that keeps us fighting to live each day to see the next.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-1143335952433136442006-03-25T20:08:00.000-05:002006-03-25T21:02:37.763-05:00Self AcceptanceThe internal battle of managing self image versus perceived image can be constant. For me it has been something that has plagued me a major portion of my life.<br /><br />I have had times that were better than others, and times that were definitely worse. In the more recent months and through the process of self discovery I have tried to pin point what was a factor in changing the times that were good, why did they stop, and how did I get out of the times that were bad.<br /><br />More often than not, I can track it to my level of self importance at the time. I tend to very giving in nature, and will without a thought sacrifice to do everything I can to help someone if they need it. While this is not something bad, nor would I ever have to give up that ability, I have had to learn to accept that I have to be as willing to help myself as I am other people.<br /><br />When I take away the world from my picture, stop letting outside forces tell me what I am worth and what importance I have, I have to look inward for that. When faced with the inward reflection, it is clear to see what I do and don't like and that only I can change it or accept it.<br /><br />Lately I have truly been trying to conquer my doubts in myself. I have always been a logical person, so I rationalize them to death, but the ability to combine the logic to the emotional side of it is much easier said than done in some cases. I have always known what is true, but accepting it has been another story.<br /><br />I think I am starting to take a hold on some of my doubts and fears in myself. I know that my level of self acceptance is on the rise. My self confidence is growing and starting to reflect that strong individual I truly am. I am trying to make the way I think reflect into the way I feel and the way I live.<br /><br />I hope that I am not just winning the battle, but truly winning the war. To put this issue to rest would be a blessing of tremendous proportions.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-1142193045883783332006-03-12T14:46:00.000-05:002006-03-12T14:53:36.753-05:00Simple truths" The opposite of war is not peace, it's creation..."<br /><br />Ever hear such a simple phrase in your life that can totally change your perspective?<br /><br />Upon hearing this, I could not believe how true it felt. Sometimes one sentence can open your mind to a whole new level of understanding.<br /><br />I am always grateful, for things that help me remember that life is a continuous learning process. That anywhere at anytime, we have the opportunity to learn and grow.<br /><br />Be sure you are available to the world around you.<br /><br />" Live your life with arms wide open...."Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-1142192780090215312006-03-12T14:40:00.000-05:002006-03-12T14:55:13.900-05:00Idea forming in my headThey say the most successful ventures in life, spring from those things which you are naturally good at, those things which require little effort.<br /><br />I have been told by a few people lately, that I have a knack, actually 2 and that I should try to combine them. While I do think the idea is viable, I am not sure.<br /><br />While part of me, wants to jump right in, another parts has a fear of the embarrassment of failure or rejection.<br /><br />Most people would be shocked to hear such a thing from me, I have had a hard time admitting it to myself. This venture would be very personal though, I would exposing a true part of me, and should it not succeed would be blow to me as a person, not just a business idea.<br /><br />I know I have it in me, I fear not having the backing and support of those close to me, I would hate for the ones I care about to think of it as a joke, when should I pursue it, I would be very serious.<br /><br />Well I am just going to have to find the spirit in me and the encouragement I pass to others. I will talk myself into it, it will just take a major leap of faith on my part.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-1140399047035748142006-02-19T20:01:00.000-05:002006-02-19T20:32:58.266-05:00What goes around, comes around.Something I was taught by my mother so many years ago. That to be careful what you did, and who it hurt, because it always makes it's way back around.<br /><br />One way or another this idea has always proved true, either through direct repercussions or the dreaded guilt. This idea does fall right in line with my belief in Karma, as they hold the same basic principles.<br /><br />I wish there was truly someway to avoid others being hurt by personal mistakes, but it seems that the bigger the mistake the more people close to you it impacts, or that those closest take the brunt. I guess it would be said that too avoid making the mistakes in the first place is the only true way to avoid any ripples they might cause.<br /><br />I don't know if it is possible to completely avoid making mistakes, to err is human. I think that we can only hope that those around us love us enough to forgive us, and that we truly learn from the mistakes made. To repeat is a mistake, means it is no longer a mistake.<br /><br />To forgive and forget is also one of those phrases I heard a lot growing up. I always understood the forgive, but the forget can be so much more difficult. And I truly believe the forgetting only applies to the forgiver not the forgivee. For you to forget the forgiveness you have been extended, is to take for granted the love you have been shown. You must not forget the forgiveness, it does not show a high level of respect in my opinion.<br /><br />Forgetting does not enrich the learning process. They say knowledge of where we have been, helps us to know where we are going. They say past behavior predicts future problems. They sure do say a lot don't THEY????<br /><br />I believe that the process of forgiveness is a personal one. That it is harder for some than others. And that some don't forgive in the manner they should. They release the problem from outside, only to absorb it and take it on within themselves.<br /><br />I have come to believe that even the hardest hurt can forgiven. I think that most people benefit from some sort of therapeutic act to aid in the process. It might be the act of releasing a balloon as a symbol of them letting the problem go, it might come down to writing a letter they never intend to send. There are many ways to find it within yourself to forgive, if you really look.<br /><br />We have all made mistakes and at some point we have sought forgiveness. I hope we can all remember that feeling, of repentance and true remorse the next time we are faced to be doing the forgiving.<br /><br />Always remember, What goes around, comes round. In both directions. Both the good and the bad. So think about one of the old sayings next time you are faced with a mistake to forgive, take your pick, they all tell us to forgive is a great choice, one from which we receive benefit not only give it.<br /><br />What goes around comes around.<br />Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you.<br />Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone.<br />Love our neighbor as we love ourselves.<br />Our friends are those who know their own faults well enough to forgive us ours.<br />Practice what you preach.<br />There's no point in burying a hatchet if you're going to put up a marker on the site.<br />Without forgiveness life is governed by... an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation.<br />To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness.<br />Forgiveness is not an emotion, it's a decision."Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15309563.post-1139454001096971852006-02-08T21:48:00.000-05:002006-02-08T22:00:01.153-05:00Bet you thought I fell off the planet, right???Just kidding, no one who truly knows me, will be surprised by the lapse in blogging I am frequently guilty of.<br /><br />I am one of those BAD people, who gets into thing, it fades, then it rekindles itself. I have been extremely busy. Continuing my personal bettering journey and planning annual trip to E3 in May. Nothing like planning a trip for 18 across the country to kill some time.<br /><br />My life has been a bit of a whirlwind lately, with so much going on, but nothing being as much as I need in the moment.<br /><br />I find myself trying to keep abnormally busy, as a distraction. I have never been this long without my best friend, and he truly is a missing piece of me. Everything has become a way to pass another day and make another X on the calendar.<br /><br />The girls are going through the usual growing pains, learning their limits by testing them everyday.<br /><br />All in all, things are well here, will check in again soon, I am off for the night.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03536747833926849434noreply@blogger.com0